Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label peace. Show all posts

Saturday, December 5, 2015

A Different Christmas Concert

Tonight and tomorrow night the TCC Choir will be presenting "He's Here," our 2015 Christmas program, and I could NOT be more excited! I am so proud of our singers and instrumentalists and, especially, director Marvin Jones for the work we have put in on this beautiful Christmas program. I encourage everyone who can to come hear us tonight or tomorrow evening at 6:00.

Every year at this time, my mind goes back to the first Christmas program I ever sang in. It was very different from any that I would ever sing or play in again.

Years ago, when I was about ten or eleven years old, our church choir performed a Christmas program that had not been published. We worked from the charts handwritten by the composer, Louise Sellers. I’ve Googled Ms. Sellers, and to my knowledge she has never been published musically or otherwise.

But this Christmas musical had a profound influence on me and my perception of the Christmas story. I still remember the songs and I haven’t heard them for more than 40 years. They painted a very different picture of the first Christmas than the peaceful, pretty picture we usually imagine. And that works for me.

Oh, we had beautiful songs. I remember the lovely duet between the angel Gabriel and Mary, weaving together the annunciation and the Magnificat of Luke 1into a thing of beauty and celebration. And we would go on later in the performance to sing of the visitation of the shepherds and the wise men in grand style.

But baby Jesus was born into a dark time. Caesar Augustus could order a census that uprooted everyone from their peaceful existence and send them to their hometown, convenient or not, pregnant or not. They could arrive in crowded towns with no inn reservations, no place to land, and wind up giving birth to babies in a stable with no doctor, no midwife, no doula…just mother and father and cows and whatever else spent the night in a barn and ate out of a manger, the baby’s first crib.

It was a world in which a nervous Herod could send out a decree to slaughter all the male children who had been born in Bethlehem the past two years just because the wise men had thrown him off the track of the “infant king of the Jews” and he was afraid of one of the babies growing up and usurping his power. A mass infanticide declared by one nervous ruler.

We sang in our concert about this awful time, using the words of Jude 1:12-13:
            Clouds, they are without water, carried about by the wind.
            Trees whose fruit hath withered, twice dead, plucked up by the roots.
            Raging waves of the ocean, pouring out their own shame.
            Wandering stars to whom is reserved the blackness of darkness forever.
Not your typical Christmastime fare.

And in response to this part of the story, our choir sang the mournful verse of Matthew 2:18:
            In Ramah, there was a voice heard;
            Rachel weeping for her children…
            And would not be comforted.
You don’t often hear that deep sadness in a Christmas concert.

I remember the power of this concert. Emotionally. Musically. Spiritually. It rocked my young perceptions and thoughts.

But nothing moved my heart more than the last song, the ending. Because it was so incredibly peaceful.

With nothing beneath the choir but sustained chords on the organ, we sang the words of Zechariah, the father of John the Baptist, whose prophecy is recorded in Luke 1:
            God hath given us salvation that we might serve Him without fear,
            In holiness and righteousness before Him all the days of our lives;
            To be a light to them that sit in darkness and in the shadow of death;
            To guide our feet into the way of peace
            To guide our feet into the way of peace
            To guide our feet into the way
            Into the way of peace
            To guide our feet
            Peace
            To guide our feet…
            God hath given us salvation
            That we may walk
With Him
            In peace.

Yes, this works for me. I wish I could take the music that I still hear in my head and simply deliver it into yours. It doesn’t exist on recording or I would post it. Actually we have a terrible cassette tape somewhere, but it is barely audible now.

Perhaps you get my point without hearing the songs. Jesus came into a dark world to bring peace. We live in a dark world. It’s getting darker by the minute. Waterless clouds. Raging oceans. Withered trees where there should be fruit…just look around.

You know it’s true that you can see your Christmas tree lights best when it becomes nighttime? You’ve seen how a candle is clearest when all the other lights go out? Jesus’ light shines brightest in the darkness. And his peace is the most healing and hopeful when the world is most chaotic and hopeless around us. He doesn’t change, but we see his truth more clearly.


This Christmas, may we allow the Spirit of the Living God to guide our feet into the way of peace.

Thursday, October 22, 2015

My Huh Moment

Gilda Radner was the funniest woman ever on Saturday Night Live. She was in the original cast and I believe she set the standard for every woman—and every man—who has ever been on the show since.
One of her funniest characters was Judy Miller, a live-wired little Brownie who would turn her bedroom into a studio in which to host her own variety show. The frenetic pace of the show would build and build until Judy (Gilda) would eventually be slamming herself into the door of her bedroom, at which point her offstage mother would be yelling, “Judy! What’s going on in there?”
Judy would freeze in place, look around bewildered as if she had no idea what had just happened, and reply, “Nothing.”
Yesterday I had an epiphany. We often call those “aha moments,” but we don’t actually say, “Aha!” At least I don’t. What I usually say is, “Huh.” And then, “How ‘bout that.” And that’s what I did yesterday. I was driving in my car and suddenly said, “Huh.”
I’ve been carrying around a very deep pain for several weeks. It’s a problem that has hurt and troubled me for a while and the longer I’ve carried it the deeper it has drilled down into my heart. I won’t go into the details here, mostly because I don’t want you to isolate the specifics. I want you to get the point that I was carrying it around . . . and there was absolutely nothing I could do to fix it.
My “Huh” moment yesterday came when I realized that I was being Judy Miller. I was slamming myself up against a door for absolutely no reason. It was doing me no good to worry about the problem and it was doing the other person involved no good either. It wasn’t fixing the problem and, worst of all, it was robbing me of my joy.
So I thought, Huh, I can let this go. How ‘bout that. I don’t have to keep throwing myself up against a problem that I can’t fix just to keep frustrating myself and feeling swallowed up in pain. And the minute I realized that, I felt the chains around my heart break. I could practically hear them snap! And the grace of God flowed in and filled my heart with peace . . . the shalom kind of wholeness that I had been missing for weeks. And I looked around and thought, Oh my goodness, what a beautiful day! (I know that sounds corny, but I just report the truth; I don’t invent it.)
God will give us the grace and the strength to handle anything in our lives to which he has called us. But there is no grace for those things that are not ours to carry.
If you are carrying a load that is not yours . . . if you are feeling guilty for something that is not your responsibility or worrying about something for which someone else is accountable . . . turn it loose. Lay it down. It is not your burden. You can still pray about the situation and love the people unconditionally. But you are not responsible for their actions or choices.
Allow the love and the joy of the Lord to fill your heart with peace as you become the person you are called to be and live the life you were created to live. Jesus Christ has set you free and you are free indeed.

Huh. How ‘bout that.

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Legacy


My birthday was yesterday. “Do you remember the twenty-first night of September? Love was changing the minds of pretenders while chasing the clouds away! Our hearts were ringing in the key that our souls were singing; as we danced in the night, remember how the stars stole the night away!”
If your brain isn’t automatically providing the next “ba de ya,” you are either (a) a generation too early, or (b) just missing out on some of the best R&B music by the greatest soul band ever. (Shout-out to Earth, Wind & Fire!)
I love that one of my favorite songs ever is about my birthday. And it doesn’t hurt that it hit popularity during one of my favorite times in my life when I was surrounded by some of the best friends I would ever make in this lifetime: my college days at Trevecca Nazarene College.
In just about six weeks, we’ll be having Homecoming at Trevecca Nazarene University (yes, it’s a university now) and some of us will be celebrating our 35th Reunion.
Seriously. Thirty-five. Three. Five. I don’t even feel thirty-five years old half the time. And it’s been that many years since we graduated. You would think some of us would start acting like grown-ups, right?
Actually, I’m very proud of my fellow 1980 graduates. Several of them have gone on to become attorneys, doctors, video and film producers, teachers / professors / school administrators, pastors, and many other important and valuable professions. Many of them are parents and even grandparents now. And most of them have made an impact in one way or another on their community in large or small ways but all for the better.
So this morning, I was reading Ecclesiastes 3. You all know the chapter…the one that starts out with the “a time to” verses:

a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace. (vv. 2-8)
I read through these familiar verses and then I read along into the not-as-familiar rest of the chapter. The rest of chapter 3 is about what happens in our lives that we consider “good.” The writer acknowledges that we all feel happy when we do good in our lives.
But the truth is that the only real and lasting good in the world is God…and he already did all the real good that there was to be done. All that humanity has done in the world is mess everything up. We’ve taken righteousness and turned it into evil. Where there should be justice and judgment, in its place there’s nothing but wickedness (v. 16). So what are we feeling so good about?
The writer concludes with this: “So I saw that there is nothing better for a person than to enjoy their work, because that is their lot. For who can bring them to see what will happen after them?” (v. 22).
These people are enjoying their “good” because they aren’t considering the lasting effects. When they die, they won’t see what their “happiness” will have done to those who come after them. No one will bring them back and say, “Look! Do you see what you left to your children and your grandchildren and their children to clean up after you? Are they happy?”
It’s been thirty-five years since I graduated from college. When I graduated in 1980, our society had an energy crisis with waning oil supplies; racism; drug addiction; starvation in many countries in Africa; suicide among teens because of drugs, LGBT identity and family rejection, or depression; issues with gay rights; and more conflicts within and between the churches than between the Church and the rest of the world.
How far have we come? Or perhaps I should ask, how close have we stayed?
For many of us, we are not at the beginning of our adult years but we have more behind us than before us. We need to decide now what we will do in this lifetime to make a difference for the world to come.
Maybe we should look back at those earlier verses and decide that it’s a time to plant…a time to heal…a time to build…a time to weep and a time to laugh…a time to mourn and a time to dance…a time to embrace…a time to search…a time to keep and a time to throw away…a time to mend…a time to be silent and a time to speak…a time to love…a time for peace.
 

My thoughts are with you
Holding hands with your heart to see you…
Only knew talk and love,
Remember how we knew love was here to stay. (EW&F)

Friday, January 23, 2015

Peace, Man

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1).

Years ago I was working as a teller trainee at the busiest downtown bank in Orlando. On one particularly busy afternoon, I heard a commotion a few windows down at the teller counter as a customer was blasting the head teller with his frustrations over a recent transaction gone wrong. I observed as the experienced teller listened for a couple of minutes to the man carrying on about what had happened and how it had left him furious.

When he finally stopped—or at least paused to catch his breath—I expected the head teller to really set him straight and let him know that we certainly could not have done something so terribly wrong and irresponsible. Instead, the woman just put both of her hands on the counter between them, leaned in, and quietly said, “You have really had an awful time, haven’t you? What an awful day you’ve had. Why don’t we see what we can do to make this better, okay?”

It totally diffused the man. He had nothing else to say but, “Thank you. That would be great.” And from there, the volume and intensity totally changed. And I learned a lesson that has stuck with me to this day—both at work and at home and in all of my relationships.

I wish I could say that I always remember this, but I haven’t reached that state of perfection just yet. But many, many times I remember to stop and listen to what I’m hearing before I respond in anger, defense, or any other harsh emotion that will only further the conflict.

Somewhere along the way my family picked up the phrase “nailing Jell-o to the tree.” I’ll sometimes try to picture that when someone comes at me in anger . . . giving in so gently that their attempts at aggression are exactly like that . . . like nailing Jell-o to a tree. Nothing sticks.

What should follow next, of course, is constructive solution. Sitting down and working through the problem. Some people don’t want that; they’re really just there for a fight. If so, that’s their problem; don’t own that. But if you can diffuse the heat in the moment to get down to solving the problem effectively, things will be better for everyone.

“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” (Matthew 5:9).